The #1-Rated Dating Book on AmazonSmart, successful women CAN have it all: a great career AND a rich, warm, fulfilling love life. Intelligent women are having unfulfilling love lives on an epidemic scale. They either can't find the right guy, are with the wrong guy, have relationships that don't last, or have given up on dating entirely. So I wrote this book to remedy the situation.'Can you summarize the book for me in a minute?' People have asked me that cheeky question hundreds of times. So here's the 3-word summary for ya: BE THE LIGHT.What does that mean? Well, 5,000 or so letters I've received from women readers on their dating woes can all be boiled down to this: 'Does my butt look good in these pants?'Okay, what they're really asking is 'Am I enough?' Answer: Wrong question Focus on this question instead: 'How can I make the people around me feel like a million bucks?'How to Generate the Love You Want Instead of Waiting for It to HappenAt any point in life, you have the option to elevate those around you -- with a look, a touch, a phrase of praise, genuine appreciation. 'Hey, love what you've done with that outfit.' 'Thanks for the fabulous meal ' When you appreciate and elevate others, they light up. And because we're hypersocial, empathic beings equipped with mirror neurons, YOU light up, and everyone notices: 'Who is that glow-in-the-dark girl? I want to be around her 'Now, you're lonely no more And instead of coming from a place of lack or need, you're coming from abundance, joy, and choice. A much stronger starting point for any relationship.Butts and fashions change. The power to elevate, on the other hand, is power that cannot be taken away from you. The Tao of Dating is your manual for learning how to be the light and come into your authentic power.This is not your grandma's dating guide. Partially because I'm not your grandma, and partially because the 21st century poses unprecedented challenges to the modern woman. And nowadays, lots of guys are less educated and affluent than you. What to do? I give you tips on how to handle all that like: The dilemma of the career-oriented womanHow to embrace your inner goddessWhy men are so damn hornyThe perfect guy vs. the perfect guy for youWhy good women get involved (and stay) in bad relationshipsHow to spot bad boysHow to love your body nowThirteen places to meet great menWhy long-distance relationships suckInternet dating: perils and opportunitiesMeeting men: should you initiate or not?Fail-