Running from a twin flame is a total re-enactment of abandonment trauma. It is also a coping mechanism. When you are the runner, you feel uncomfortable with opening up to your twin flame. If you have been hurt and abandoned in the past, you do not trust that a twin flame loves you the way he or she does. You assume that it is a play; Somehow he or she might abandon you shortly. So you choose to run to avoid feeling re-victimized.

You feel overwhelming feelings of abandonment. You also fear that a twin flame will see your core wounding. He or she disarms you. They see through you. A twin flame can make you feel vulnerable because you feel exposed. You fear that any chance he or she gets, they will hurt you like in the past.

A twin flame has to deal with all these issues to heal and feel free to embody unconditional love. You have to let light in - you have to let your heart open with love. It is one of the scary experiences for the twin flame runner because for you to accept your twin flame love, you have to face your fears. You have to confront parts of yourself that you are hiding from. You have to stare into the darkest parts of your soul.

You can temporarily try to distract yourself by trying to not feel the connection at all. You put up an inner resistance to loving him or her. You try not to have loving thoughts toward your twin flame. You distract yourself as much as you can in every possible way. You can also try to run into new relationships, move continents, etc.

Unfortunately, the twin flame encounter is governed by your energetic vibrations. You and your twin flame are a single energetic unit. Your Union happens when you both find energetic harmony and balance.

Even though you consciously try to block your twin flame's energy, it creeps up on you. You find yourself smiling for no reason because you remember how funny he or she is. When you have a bad day, a good memory of your twin flame is like a ray of sunshine on a gray day. You have dreams about them. Sometimes his or her essence comforts you.

If you are looking for different tactics to confront your pain, this book is your starting point. All the views, tips, and insights in this book are from real-life twin flame runner experiences.

May you stay in love. Stay Blessed!